April 2024 Newsletter
A Note From The Publisher
Three Miracles And Me
These are true stories with a special twist; my personal stories. These are the short versions because I wanted to make it an easy read for everyone. If you are not one who believes in God nor any higher power, please be forewarned that these stories could change your mind.
Story #1. When I was 18 months old it was discovered that I had Neuroblastoma. A common cancer for young children for which there is still no cure. It was wrapped completely around my left kidney so the kidney was removed. It was then discovered to also be throughout my bone marrow all over my body. This was around 1961 and there were no treatments outside of doing what they called, at the time, X-ray therapy. Some treatments were administered but were not working and the cancer was growing. My doctor was Marshal Pitts, at Children's Hospital, in Birmingham, Alabama. He was a new doctor there and very young. He suggested to my parents to him do a procedure where they would remove my bone marrow and inject nitrogen mustered, in hopes that would kill the cancer. It had never been done here in the states and he did tell my parents it would be easy for me to develop pneumonia because I would have no immune system anymore. Since my prognoses was certain death from the cancer anyway, my parents agreed to allow the surgery, in a last ditch effort to save my life.
My maternal grandfather was a Christian man and had as many people praying for me as was possible. You have to remember there was no social media back in those days. He belonged to a small Baptist church, in a small town and they would hold special prayer sessions where they came together just to pray for me. Fast forward to the day of the surgery. My Grandfather was there and told my surgeon about how he had been praying for me. He told him he felt God had told him that I was cured. The surgeon explained to my Grandfather how more tests/x-rays had already been done so he was certain it was there but, to appease him, he finally agreed to do more. The cancer was discovered to be completely gone! So, instead of having that horrible surgery, I got to go home. I continued to be tested often and over the next 5 years but of course, no one trace of it was ever again found. My surgeon was also a Christian man. When ever he would give seminars or have a speaking engagement he many times would tell my story in hopes of persuading some of those scientist non-believers that God does exist. If you are one who thinks prayer can't change things, you may want to rethink that notion. It doesn't always take prayer to get a miracle which, you will find in my second story, but prayers do matter and yes, they can change things.
Story #2. Shortly after my son was born, in 1994, I had a partial hysterectomy. I had been having complications which were putting my health at risk. We could not find the reason for the issues and I was left with no choice but to try this surgery in hopes it would help. After the surgery, the doctor came in to talk to us and let us know that a tumor was found in my uterus and that it had been sent to the lab for evaluation. He wasn't expecting the results back before I left the hospital but the next day he walked into my room with the report. He said the tumor was cancerous but the unique thing about it was that it had started to break apart and disintegrate on it's own which was something they had never seen happen before. He said, "That's the kind of thing you may see happen when someone has been going through treatment but we know you haven't been through any treatment so the lab folks and I feel that you just got a miracle. People in the lab feel like they witnessed the hand of God in action." This goes to show you how God is at work, in your life, moving toward miracles you didn't even know you needed.
Story #3. January 2005. I had been divorced for 6 years and was raising 2 children; a 16 year old daughter and 11 year old son. I went to the doctor to have a tiny knot diagnosed which was under my right arm. Sonar was taken and I went back later for the results. The surgeon walks into the room saying, "Good news! It's not cancer!" She hung some kind of fancy name on it and told me they just leave those alone. I asked her what if it starts to grow or bother me. She shrugged her shoulders and said they might remove it in that case but generally, they don't mess with them. I left her office feeling happy. Unfortunately, it did start to bother me and was clearly growing so, I went back but this time to a different surgeon. She did a biopsy on the spot and rushed the results while I waited, in the lobby. Yes, you guessed it. It was cancer and I was scheduled for surgery. During the surgery the surgeon removed 15 lymph nodes with 14 of them positive and not only that but the cancer had already broken through the cells and was running all through my blood stream. This promptly warranted a right mastectomy and stage 3C diagnoses. Chemo was the next step.
I do want to stop here and say that the day I found out it was cancer I was alone at the doctor's office. When I left there I prayed while driving home. I just said to God that I wanted to live to finish raising my children but that if my death would bring Him greater glory in any way, that I was ready to go. I told Him I wanted to be His vessel no matter what that meant for me and that I would trust Him to take care of my children and promised not to be angry with Him, if He decided to take me. I immediately had an overwhelming feeling of peace. I had no idea what was going to happen but I just had this great peace about it all.
The day came when it was time to start chemo. I had my first treatment and went home. That night I had found a Bible which I had as a teenager. Back in those days, I was very involved in church, youth groups and youth choir. I was very close to God and had made all kinds of notes in that bible and underlined many passages. I had not looked at it in years but did that night before going to bed. When I finished I just laid it on the pillow beside me. I turned out the lights. Said my usual prayers which, by the way, didn't include anything about my own illness other than asking God to help me through it all. There I was with my eyes closed just trying to go to sleep when I felt this big jolt on my right clavicle. That's where they said they thought they saw a spot after the P.E.T. scan I had for the oncologist. Some would call it a lightning bolt sensation but there was no sharp pain. It was just a very hard hit like getting kicked by a mule but was just in that one tiny spot. I opened my eyes and laid there wondering what in the world just happened when all of a sudden I got another jolt but this time at the base of my neck. Nobody had said anything to me about my neck so by this time I shouted out loud, "GOD?" as though calling out for help. Immediately my mind said, "Turn on the light and read your Bible. Just open it and read and you will be comforted." So, I did. When I opened the bible I didn't fumble through pages. I just opened it and there were the words God wanted me to see. They were underlined. I felt the push to read out loud and this is what I read......
"Bless the Lord who is my immovable Rock. He gives me strength and skill in battle. He is always kind and loving to me; He is my fortress, my tower of strength and safety, my deliverer. He stands before me as a shield." Psalms 144. I looked up and read another passage that I had underlined. Again, having the feeling of needing to read out loud. God clearly wanted to hear me say these words and I read.... "Lord, saving me will bring glory to your name. Bring me out of all this trouble because you are true to your promises. And because you are loving and kind to me, cut off ALL my enemies and destroy those who are trying to harm me; for I am your servant." Psalms 143: 11. A rush of peace came over me like I have never before experienced. Father God was telling me that HE was in control of it all. He was fighting that battle; not me. A few days later I flipped the page on the Bible and saw where I had written in the margin of that chapter 143 passage, "My prayer." I had written that as a teen but little did I know what it was going to mean to me so many years later. Again, I had another rush of peace come over me, as I saw those words.
If you need further confirmation that it was a night of miracles, here you go. The doctors wanted me to go for radiation therapy after chemo. I went to one doctor who relayed his plan of action to me which seemed logical and was all protocol but for some reason, I felt the need to go for a second opinion. I visited the second doctor and as I listened to the radiologist talk about the focus points. She said, "There is one other place I might add" (aside from what the first doctor wanted to do) and as she said that, she reached up and touched the base of my neck. She said it was logical for that to be the first place the cancer would go considering it's current location. Well, needless to say, I knew that had already been dealt with by a higher power. She touched the very spot I had felt the jolt that special night. Now I knew why I felt that jolt on my neck that night. That was just God further confirming to me that He was in control. Now I knew why I was so driven to get a second opinion for something that should be standard protocol for my situation. God wanted to drive it home to me that HIS hand was involved.
I was told I would maybe live a couple of more years but folks, that was 2005. To God be the GLORY! AMEN! I don't know why God saved me but honestly, it is none of my business and I am sure He had multiple reasons. He doesn't have to answer to me. I am the one who has to answer to Him. It is not for me to question His ways but my job to have faith, trust His judgement, and be willing to be His vessel no matter what that means.
I recently enjoyed welcoming my first grandchild into this world and oh, what a glorious day! My son and I both stood there full of tears of joy and thankful the Lord allowed me to live to see that day. Her parents played worship music while she was being born and they prayed over her to have a peaceful entrance to this world. I will never forget my son texting us that the Holy Spirit was in that room. How sweet and my heart was full! She is surrounded by so much love and may the Lord bless her all the days of her life.
Dear Lord, I pray these stories will reach all the ones who need to hear them and that they will help them in some way. Amen!
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Personal Message From Patricia:
If you are a resident of the Destin or close surrounding area, I invite you to join our private locals Destinites Facebook group at www.Facebook.com/Destinites with 9,700+ members.
If you live in Destin proper, you receive a freely distributed Destin Life newspaper. Please look for my article every month titled "Ask Destinites."
Palms 144: 1 & 2: From The Living Bible 1972 version
"Bless The Lord who is my immovable Rock. He gives me strength and skill in battle. He is always kind and loving to me; He is my fortress, my tower of strength and safety, my deliverer. He stands before me as a shield. "
Patricia Lee, Owner: www.Destinites.com Est. 2018 Destinites, Inc. (TM)
Original Newsletter created: December 2021
Three Miracles And Me
These are true stories with a special twist; my personal stories. These are the short versions because I wanted to make it an easy read for everyone. If you are not one who believes in God nor any higher power, please be forewarned that these stories could change your mind.
Story #1. When I was 18 months old it was discovered that I had Neuroblastoma. A common cancer for young children for which there is still no cure. It was wrapped completely around my left kidney so the kidney was removed. It was then discovered to also be throughout my bone marrow all over my body. This was around 1961 and there were no treatments outside of doing what they called, at the time, X-ray therapy. Some treatments were administered but were not working and the cancer was growing. My doctor was Marshal Pitts, at Children's Hospital, in Birmingham, Alabama. He was a new doctor there and very young. He suggested to my parents to him do a procedure where they would remove my bone marrow and inject nitrogen mustered, in hopes that would kill the cancer. It had never been done here in the states and he did tell my parents it would be easy for me to develop pneumonia because I would have no immune system anymore. Since my prognoses was certain death from the cancer anyway, my parents agreed to allow the surgery, in a last ditch effort to save my life.
My maternal grandfather was a Christian man and had as many people praying for me as was possible. You have to remember there was no social media back in those days. He belonged to a small Baptist church, in a small town and they would hold special prayer sessions where they came together just to pray for me. Fast forward to the day of the surgery. My Grandfather was there and told my surgeon about how he had been praying for me. He told him he felt God had told him that I was cured. The surgeon explained to my Grandfather how more tests/x-rays had already been done so he was certain it was there but, to appease him, he finally agreed to do more. The cancer was discovered to be completely gone! So, instead of having that horrible surgery, I got to go home. I continued to be tested often and over the next 5 years but of course, no one trace of it was ever again found. My surgeon was also a Christian man. When ever he would give seminars or have a speaking engagement he many times would tell my story in hopes of persuading some of those scientist non-believers that God does exist. If you are one who thinks prayer can't change things, you may want to rethink that notion. It doesn't always take prayer to get a miracle which, you will find in my second story, but prayers do matter and yes, they can change things.
Story #2. Shortly after my son was born, in 1994, I had a partial hysterectomy. I had been having complications which were putting my health at risk. We could not find the reason for the issues and I was left with no choice but to try this surgery in hopes it would help. After the surgery, the doctor came in to talk to us and let us know that a tumor was found in my uterus and that it had been sent to the lab for evaluation. He wasn't expecting the results back before I left the hospital but the next day he walked into my room with the report. He said the tumor was cancerous but the unique thing about it was that it had started to break apart and disintegrate on it's own which was something they had never seen happen before. He said, "That's the kind of thing you may see happen when someone has been going through treatment but we know you haven't been through any treatment so the lab folks and I feel that you just got a miracle. People in the lab feel like they witnessed the hand of God in action." This goes to show you how God is at work, in your life, moving toward miracles you didn't even know you needed.
Story #3. January 2005. I had been divorced for 6 years and was raising 2 children; a 16 year old daughter and 11 year old son. I went to the doctor to have a tiny knot diagnosed which was under my right arm. Sonar was taken and I went back later for the results. The surgeon walks into the room saying, "Good news! It's not cancer!" She hung some kind of fancy name on it and told me they just leave those alone. I asked her what if it starts to grow or bother me. She shrugged her shoulders and said they might remove it in that case but generally, they don't mess with them. I left her office feeling happy. Unfortunately, it did start to bother me and was clearly growing so, I went back but this time to a different surgeon. She did a biopsy on the spot and rushed the results while I waited, in the lobby. Yes, you guessed it. It was cancer and I was scheduled for surgery. During the surgery the surgeon removed 15 lymph nodes with 14 of them positive and not only that but the cancer had already broken through the cells and was running all through my blood stream. This promptly warranted a right mastectomy and stage 3C diagnoses. Chemo was the next step.
I do want to stop here and say that the day I found out it was cancer I was alone at the doctor's office. When I left there I prayed while driving home. I just said to God that I wanted to live to finish raising my children but that if my death would bring Him greater glory in any way, that I was ready to go. I told Him I wanted to be His vessel no matter what that meant for me and that I would trust Him to take care of my children and promised not to be angry with Him, if He decided to take me. I immediately had an overwhelming feeling of peace. I had no idea what was going to happen but I just had this great peace about it all.
The day came when it was time to start chemo. I had my first treatment and went home. That night I had found a Bible which I had as a teenager. Back in those days, I was very involved in church, youth groups and youth choir. I was very close to God and had made all kinds of notes in that bible and underlined many passages. I had not looked at it in years but did that night before going to bed. When I finished I just laid it on the pillow beside me. I turned out the lights. Said my usual prayers which, by the way, didn't include anything about my own illness other than asking God to help me through it all. There I was with my eyes closed just trying to go to sleep when I felt this big jolt on my right clavicle. That's where they said they thought they saw a spot after the P.E.T. scan I had for the oncologist. Some would call it a lightning bolt sensation but there was no sharp pain. It was just a very hard hit like getting kicked by a mule but was just in that one tiny spot. I opened my eyes and laid there wondering what in the world just happened when all of a sudden I got another jolt but this time at the base of my neck. Nobody had said anything to me about my neck so by this time I shouted out loud, "GOD?" as though calling out for help. Immediately my mind said, "Turn on the light and read your Bible. Just open it and read and you will be comforted." So, I did. When I opened the bible I didn't fumble through pages. I just opened it and there were the words God wanted me to see. They were underlined. I felt the push to read out loud and this is what I read......
"Bless the Lord who is my immovable Rock. He gives me strength and skill in battle. He is always kind and loving to me; He is my fortress, my tower of strength and safety, my deliverer. He stands before me as a shield." Psalms 144. I looked up and read another passage that I had underlined. Again, having the feeling of needing to read out loud. God clearly wanted to hear me say these words and I read.... "Lord, saving me will bring glory to your name. Bring me out of all this trouble because you are true to your promises. And because you are loving and kind to me, cut off ALL my enemies and destroy those who are trying to harm me; for I am your servant." Psalms 143: 11. A rush of peace came over me like I have never before experienced. Father God was telling me that HE was in control of it all. He was fighting that battle; not me. A few days later I flipped the page on the Bible and saw where I had written in the margin of that chapter 143 passage, "My prayer." I had written that as a teen but little did I know what it was going to mean to me so many years later. Again, I had another rush of peace come over me, as I saw those words.
If you need further confirmation that it was a night of miracles, here you go. The doctors wanted me to go for radiation therapy after chemo. I went to one doctor who relayed his plan of action to me which seemed logical and was all protocol but for some reason, I felt the need to go for a second opinion. I visited the second doctor and as I listened to the radiologist talk about the focus points. She said, "There is one other place I might add" (aside from what the first doctor wanted to do) and as she said that, she reached up and touched the base of my neck. She said it was logical for that to be the first place the cancer would go considering it's current location. Well, needless to say, I knew that had already been dealt with by a higher power. She touched the very spot I had felt the jolt that special night. Now I knew why I felt that jolt on my neck that night. That was just God further confirming to me that He was in control. Now I knew why I was so driven to get a second opinion for something that should be standard protocol for my situation. God wanted to drive it home to me that HIS hand was involved.
I was told I would maybe live a couple of more years but folks, that was 2005. To God be the GLORY! AMEN! I don't know why God saved me but honestly, it is none of my business and I am sure He had multiple reasons. He doesn't have to answer to me. I am the one who has to answer to Him. It is not for me to question His ways but my job to have faith, trust His judgement, and be willing to be His vessel no matter what that means.
I recently enjoyed welcoming my first grandchild into this world and oh, what a glorious day! My son and I both stood there full of tears of joy and thankful the Lord allowed me to live to see that day. Her parents played worship music while she was being born and they prayed over her to have a peaceful entrance to this world. I will never forget my son texting us that the Holy Spirit was in that room. How sweet and my heart was full! She is surrounded by so much love and may the Lord bless her all the days of her life.
Dear Lord, I pray these stories will reach all the ones who need to hear them and that they will help them in some way. Amen!
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Personal Message From Patricia:
If you are a resident of the Destin or close surrounding area, I invite you to join our private locals Destinites Facebook group at www.Facebook.com/Destinites with 9,700+ members.
If you live in Destin proper, you receive a freely distributed Destin Life newspaper. Please look for my article every month titled "Ask Destinites."
Palms 144: 1 & 2: From The Living Bible 1972 version
"Bless The Lord who is my immovable Rock. He gives me strength and skill in battle. He is always kind and loving to me; He is my fortress, my tower of strength and safety, my deliverer. He stands before me as a shield. "
Patricia Lee, Owner: www.Destinites.com Est. 2018 Destinites, Inc. (TM)
Original Newsletter created: December 2021
If you are interested in being a sponsor or article contributor, contact Patricia: [email protected]
Another Year Of Favor: Destin Celebrates The 67th Annual Blessing Of The Fleet!
Submitted by Lori Leath Smith, Publisher - Life Media, Inc. Destin Life community newspaper
We all have reasons why we live in Destin. But, I believe, many are drawn here, because our city is so blessed…After all, it IS known as the “World’s Luckiest Fishing Village.” Not only a beach destination, our town was founded on fishing! But despite the legendary stories of big catches and heroic fishing, there are also horrendous ones where hope was dim and times were tough. And through it all, we prevail and are still the World’s Luckiest Fishing Village, with the largest fishing fleet in North America.
As I’ve said before, could it be that because we bless our city, its citizens, our Harbor, businesses, residents, youth and many more each year, that it results in favor for our little paradise? You can ask captains in Destin’s fishing fleet and many will tell you their success rides on prayer. Destin fisherman, locals and area professionals alike will tell you they believe their success rides on blessings.
That brings us to Destin’s Week of Blessings held each year and is what makes continuing the yearly “blessing of the fleet” tradition so important. Despite having grown and prospered from a fleet of four to five boats more than half a century ago into more than 125 charter-fishing boats today, this one event begun by Destin’s Immanuel Anglican Church will always make it feel like Old Destin, and our lucky fishing village it is best known for.
To further expand the “blessings,” a few years ago, several pastors got together to form the ‘Church of Destin’ as a symbol of unity, crossing denominational barriers and also igniting Destin’s Week of Blessings. As the Blessing of the Fleet grew, so did the hundreds of people, families and businesses in the area who also wanted to be blessed. And before you knew it, the vision expanded into a full “Week of Blessings.” That’s how the Blessing of the Marketplace was born, enabling the “blessing” to impact further to other locals, professionals and visitors, too. Hundreds of business owners, first responders, industry leaders and representatives usually gather during the Blessing of the Marketplace at Destin United Methodist Church. Local pastors from various churches representing the collective “Church of Destin” pray over people and professionals in our community.
Destin’s 67th Annual Blessing of the Fleet will be held on Ascension Day, Thursday, May 9th, at the docks behind Brotula’s Seafood House and Steamer Restaurant on the Destin Harbor. The event begins at 4 p.m. with a Captains’ Worship and Prayer Service to be held under a large tent. The public is encouraged to attend. Following the service, around 5:15 p.m., local clergy
will process to the dock to begin blessing those vessels which have pre-registered. All commercial fishing, safety and recreational vessels that make their living on the sea are invited to participate. Several local area pastors will gather at the dock and the bless the boats one by one as they proceed in a line down the harbor–praying for safe passage and bountiful catches
for the 2024 season. A fish fry is usually held directly after.
In 2023, more than 150 fishing boats and vessels were blessed! So, a lot has changed since Destin was a quaint fishing village. And, that’s what makes continuing this unique tradition so special. It serves to remind us of the significant role that fishermen have played and continue to play in our beloved Destin community. As always, Thursday's Blessing of the Fleet is hosted by Immanuel Anglican Church. Immanuel is excited to team with other area churches who share the vision of preserving Destin's character as a faith-and-family-oriented community. TO PRE-REGISTER YOUR VESSEL: If you and your vessel make your living on the sea and would
like to receive a blessing, please register your watercraft by emailing [email protected], or by calling the church at 850-837-6324 with your vessel’s name, captain’s name, mailing address, email address and phone number.
For more information on the Blessing of the Fleet, visit iacdestin.org/special-events/blessing-of- the-fleet, contact Immanuel Anglican Church at [email protected] or 850-837-6324. Immanuel Anglican Church is located at 250 Indian Bayou Trail in Destin, just north of the Nancy Weidenhamer Dog Park in Destin.
Never doubt that your prayers on behalf of our coveted city are to no avail. We have and continue to witness the blessing of favor in our small paradise. Could it be that Destin has been dubbed the “World’s Luckiest Fishing Village” because, simply, it is SO “blessed?”
Submitted by Lori Leath Smith, Publisher - Life Media, Inc. Destin Life community newspaper
We all have reasons why we live in Destin. But, I believe, many are drawn here, because our city is so blessed…After all, it IS known as the “World’s Luckiest Fishing Village.” Not only a beach destination, our town was founded on fishing! But despite the legendary stories of big catches and heroic fishing, there are also horrendous ones where hope was dim and times were tough. And through it all, we prevail and are still the World’s Luckiest Fishing Village, with the largest fishing fleet in North America.
As I’ve said before, could it be that because we bless our city, its citizens, our Harbor, businesses, residents, youth and many more each year, that it results in favor for our little paradise? You can ask captains in Destin’s fishing fleet and many will tell you their success rides on prayer. Destin fisherman, locals and area professionals alike will tell you they believe their success rides on blessings.
That brings us to Destin’s Week of Blessings held each year and is what makes continuing the yearly “blessing of the fleet” tradition so important. Despite having grown and prospered from a fleet of four to five boats more than half a century ago into more than 125 charter-fishing boats today, this one event begun by Destin’s Immanuel Anglican Church will always make it feel like Old Destin, and our lucky fishing village it is best known for.
To further expand the “blessings,” a few years ago, several pastors got together to form the ‘Church of Destin’ as a symbol of unity, crossing denominational barriers and also igniting Destin’s Week of Blessings. As the Blessing of the Fleet grew, so did the hundreds of people, families and businesses in the area who also wanted to be blessed. And before you knew it, the vision expanded into a full “Week of Blessings.” That’s how the Blessing of the Marketplace was born, enabling the “blessing” to impact further to other locals, professionals and visitors, too. Hundreds of business owners, first responders, industry leaders and representatives usually gather during the Blessing of the Marketplace at Destin United Methodist Church. Local pastors from various churches representing the collective “Church of Destin” pray over people and professionals in our community.
Destin’s 67th Annual Blessing of the Fleet will be held on Ascension Day, Thursday, May 9th, at the docks behind Brotula’s Seafood House and Steamer Restaurant on the Destin Harbor. The event begins at 4 p.m. with a Captains’ Worship and Prayer Service to be held under a large tent. The public is encouraged to attend. Following the service, around 5:15 p.m., local clergy
will process to the dock to begin blessing those vessels which have pre-registered. All commercial fishing, safety and recreational vessels that make their living on the sea are invited to participate. Several local area pastors will gather at the dock and the bless the boats one by one as they proceed in a line down the harbor–praying for safe passage and bountiful catches
for the 2024 season. A fish fry is usually held directly after.
In 2023, more than 150 fishing boats and vessels were blessed! So, a lot has changed since Destin was a quaint fishing village. And, that’s what makes continuing this unique tradition so special. It serves to remind us of the significant role that fishermen have played and continue to play in our beloved Destin community. As always, Thursday's Blessing of the Fleet is hosted by Immanuel Anglican Church. Immanuel is excited to team with other area churches who share the vision of preserving Destin's character as a faith-and-family-oriented community. TO PRE-REGISTER YOUR VESSEL: If you and your vessel make your living on the sea and would
like to receive a blessing, please register your watercraft by emailing [email protected], or by calling the church at 850-837-6324 with your vessel’s name, captain’s name, mailing address, email address and phone number.
For more information on the Blessing of the Fleet, visit iacdestin.org/special-events/blessing-of- the-fleet, contact Immanuel Anglican Church at [email protected] or 850-837-6324. Immanuel Anglican Church is located at 250 Indian Bayou Trail in Destin, just north of the Nancy Weidenhamer Dog Park in Destin.
Never doubt that your prayers on behalf of our coveted city are to no avail. We have and continue to witness the blessing of favor in our small paradise. Could it be that Destin has been dubbed the “World’s Luckiest Fishing Village” because, simply, it is SO “blessed?”
12 Home Maintenance Tips For Spring:
By Paul McArthur - Owner: Agape Home Pro
The milder days of spring are a perfect time to do a thorough spring cleaning and complete some needed home maintenance. With the cooler temperatures in Florida this time of year, it is an excellent time to work on preventive measures to help maintain your house and property throughout the year. Tasks such as clearing out your gutters, checking for dead trees and branches and cleaning and inspecting homes mechanical and plumbing systems, can help make spring a season of safety.
Cleaning and maintenance of your home needs to be done inside and out. Although the tasks are different, checking to see if all the components of your house remain in good working order can help in keeping your family safe and your maintenance costs lower over the long run.
HERE ARE THE HOME MAINTENANCE TIPS FOR THE INSIDE OF YOUR HOME
Electrical Outlets and Cords: Check electrical outlets and cords throughout your house for any possible fire hazards such as frayed wires or loose-fitting plugs.
Fire Extinguishers: Check your fire extinguisher a minimum of once a year, including the hose, nozzle, and other parts to determine if they are in great condition and that the pressure gauge is in the "green" range. Be sure to check the expiration date.
Air Conditioning: Check around the unit for indications of leaks. Before turning it on for the season, have your air-conditioning system checked and tuned up by a professional. Change the air filter.
Hot Water Heater: Check for leaks and deterioration.
Under Sinks and Around Toilets: Look for any signs of leakages, rust or corrosion on pipes, supply lines and fixtures.
Home appliances: Check supply lines for washers, ice makers and water dispensers, refrigerators, and dishwashers for signs of leakages or wear and tear. Be sure to correct any issues you encounter. Early detections can save you money in the long run.
Dryers: Dryer lint can build up inside the vent and collect around the duct. Clean both the clothing dryer exhaust duct and the space under the clothes dryer. Use a brush to clean out the vent pipe. Look for lint buildup around the lint trap and clean it as needed.
Smoke Alarm: Check each smoke detector to determine if all remain in working order, and make sure to test them monthly. Ideally, there should be at least one smoke detector on each floor of your house, including outside of each bedroom, and one within each bedroom itself.
Home Maintenance Tip For The Outside:
Roof: Check for any damage and make any necessary repairs to reduce the possibility of leakages. If you have a skylight, check outside for an accumulation of leaves and particles. Likewise, inspect the indoor ceiling for signs of leaks. Keep in mind to put safety first any time you are on a roof. If you have any doubt, leave it to the experts.
Rain gutters: Clean leaves and other debris from rain gutters and downspouts to keep water flowing and minimize the possibility of water damage.
Trees: Visually examine trees for damage or rot and remove (think about working with a certified expert) any dead trees that may blow over in heavy winds or during a storm. Keep healthy trees and bushes trimmed and away from utility wires.
Walkways and Driveways: Repair any cracks and damaged or uneven surface areas to offer a more secure, level walking area.
Just a little home maintenance in the spring can go a long way to help keep your home safe throughout the rest of the year.
As always, there is no shame in asking for help!! There are all sorts of quality businesses in the Destinites Directory who would love to help!
By Paul McArthur - Owner: Agape Home Pro
The milder days of spring are a perfect time to do a thorough spring cleaning and complete some needed home maintenance. With the cooler temperatures in Florida this time of year, it is an excellent time to work on preventive measures to help maintain your house and property throughout the year. Tasks such as clearing out your gutters, checking for dead trees and branches and cleaning and inspecting homes mechanical and plumbing systems, can help make spring a season of safety.
Cleaning and maintenance of your home needs to be done inside and out. Although the tasks are different, checking to see if all the components of your house remain in good working order can help in keeping your family safe and your maintenance costs lower over the long run.
HERE ARE THE HOME MAINTENANCE TIPS FOR THE INSIDE OF YOUR HOME
Electrical Outlets and Cords: Check electrical outlets and cords throughout your house for any possible fire hazards such as frayed wires or loose-fitting plugs.
Fire Extinguishers: Check your fire extinguisher a minimum of once a year, including the hose, nozzle, and other parts to determine if they are in great condition and that the pressure gauge is in the "green" range. Be sure to check the expiration date.
Air Conditioning: Check around the unit for indications of leaks. Before turning it on for the season, have your air-conditioning system checked and tuned up by a professional. Change the air filter.
Hot Water Heater: Check for leaks and deterioration.
Under Sinks and Around Toilets: Look for any signs of leakages, rust or corrosion on pipes, supply lines and fixtures.
Home appliances: Check supply lines for washers, ice makers and water dispensers, refrigerators, and dishwashers for signs of leakages or wear and tear. Be sure to correct any issues you encounter. Early detections can save you money in the long run.
Dryers: Dryer lint can build up inside the vent and collect around the duct. Clean both the clothing dryer exhaust duct and the space under the clothes dryer. Use a brush to clean out the vent pipe. Look for lint buildup around the lint trap and clean it as needed.
Smoke Alarm: Check each smoke detector to determine if all remain in working order, and make sure to test them monthly. Ideally, there should be at least one smoke detector on each floor of your house, including outside of each bedroom, and one within each bedroom itself.
Home Maintenance Tip For The Outside:
Roof: Check for any damage and make any necessary repairs to reduce the possibility of leakages. If you have a skylight, check outside for an accumulation of leaves and particles. Likewise, inspect the indoor ceiling for signs of leaks. Keep in mind to put safety first any time you are on a roof. If you have any doubt, leave it to the experts.
Rain gutters: Clean leaves and other debris from rain gutters and downspouts to keep water flowing and minimize the possibility of water damage.
Trees: Visually examine trees for damage or rot and remove (think about working with a certified expert) any dead trees that may blow over in heavy winds or during a storm. Keep healthy trees and bushes trimmed and away from utility wires.
Walkways and Driveways: Repair any cracks and damaged or uneven surface areas to offer a more secure, level walking area.
Just a little home maintenance in the spring can go a long way to help keep your home safe throughout the rest of the year.
As always, there is no shame in asking for help!! There are all sorts of quality businesses in the Destinites Directory who would love to help!
Cyber Crime- The How to Combat the Most Popular Criminal Trend:
provided by Melissa Jones, Insurance Agent and Owner: Norton Insurance Agency
The landscape for theft is no longer a physical scene of knifepoint in a dark alley, it’s now gone digital.
Cyber Crime is at an all-time high. With criminals targeting the wealthiest generation the world has ever
seen, I hear stories every day about a friend or parent falling prey to a scam or a business being attacked
by ransomware. Florida is ranked 2 nd in the nation for identity theft and 3 rd in the nation for Cybercrime
Victim with 41,000 victims in 2023 with an average loss of $21,000. 1
My mom was recently targeted with a cyber crime when a hacker was able to steal access to their
computer, accounts, and personal information including banking and financial data. She innocently clicked on a link in her email that led to them getting control of their life. She has spent months trying to regain control of their account and finances. Luckily, she was able to catch the suspicious activity before any money was stolen, but so much of the time this is not the case. To combat this growing trend, please familiarize yourself with the techniques Cyber Criminals use to illicit your funds and information.
Types of Cyber Crime
1. Hacking: unauthorized access to computer systems or accounts, often with the intent to cause
further damage and steal information for their own financial gain.
2. Phishing: Impersonating legitimate entities (companies or individuals) to truck users into
revealing sensitive information. I’ve seen emails that look like they’re coming from business
associates asking for sensitive payroll information in hopes of getting access to bank account
information.
3. Malware: Spreading malicious software (viruses, worms, Trojans, ransomware within devices or
networks.
4. Identity Theft: Stealing personal data (names, addresses, social security numbers) to
fraudulently assume someone’s identity.
Impacts and Examples of Cyber Crime
The most obvious impact of falling prey to cybercrime is financial. They can steal bank account
information, credit card numbers, and possible loan information. They can ruin/freeze your bank
account and credit score. On a business level, criminals could gain access to customer information and
impersonate you, destroying the trust and loyalty based you’ve earned over the years.
COMBATING CYBER FRAUD
Security Measures
Install anti-viruses and firewalls to all your personal and business computers. And regularly update
software to stay protected.
Be Suspicious
Never click on vague emails from “friends” that want you to “check this out”.
Always look at the from address when viewing an email.
Make you password hard to guess and change it across different sites
Avoid giving out your email to every website you visit or every store that asks.
Never give out your banking information except through an encrypted website.
Insurance:
As insurance professionals, we always recommend having a backup plan if your security measures are
enough to prevent cybercrime.
To protect your personal wealth most home insurance (primary usage) companies have the option of including identity theft protection. This added coverage is usually a very small annual premium and can cover around $5,000 in damages.
If you are a small business, please understand that it’s not just your assets and information on the line. Any customer information you have on file (credit cards, address, dob) are susceptible for being stolen. If this information gets into the wrong hands, your business will be responsible.
Business Cyber Insurance includes financial losses due to cyber events, coverage if your information or customer information is stolen, and possible financial aid for legal consultation. It can also include coverage for lost revenue if your business is inoperable during a cyber event.
The battlefield for combating theft may have shifted to the digital world, but there are plenty of weapons at our disposal to ensure our safety. If you are vigilant and have the right protection, your assets should be secure in the cyber world we now live in.
provided by Melissa Jones, Insurance Agent and Owner: Norton Insurance Agency
The landscape for theft is no longer a physical scene of knifepoint in a dark alley, it’s now gone digital.
Cyber Crime is at an all-time high. With criminals targeting the wealthiest generation the world has ever
seen, I hear stories every day about a friend or parent falling prey to a scam or a business being attacked
by ransomware. Florida is ranked 2 nd in the nation for identity theft and 3 rd in the nation for Cybercrime
Victim with 41,000 victims in 2023 with an average loss of $21,000. 1
My mom was recently targeted with a cyber crime when a hacker was able to steal access to their
computer, accounts, and personal information including banking and financial data. She innocently clicked on a link in her email that led to them getting control of their life. She has spent months trying to regain control of their account and finances. Luckily, she was able to catch the suspicious activity before any money was stolen, but so much of the time this is not the case. To combat this growing trend, please familiarize yourself with the techniques Cyber Criminals use to illicit your funds and information.
Types of Cyber Crime
1. Hacking: unauthorized access to computer systems or accounts, often with the intent to cause
further damage and steal information for their own financial gain.
2. Phishing: Impersonating legitimate entities (companies or individuals) to truck users into
revealing sensitive information. I’ve seen emails that look like they’re coming from business
associates asking for sensitive payroll information in hopes of getting access to bank account
information.
3. Malware: Spreading malicious software (viruses, worms, Trojans, ransomware within devices or
networks.
4. Identity Theft: Stealing personal data (names, addresses, social security numbers) to
fraudulently assume someone’s identity.
Impacts and Examples of Cyber Crime
The most obvious impact of falling prey to cybercrime is financial. They can steal bank account
information, credit card numbers, and possible loan information. They can ruin/freeze your bank
account and credit score. On a business level, criminals could gain access to customer information and
impersonate you, destroying the trust and loyalty based you’ve earned over the years.
COMBATING CYBER FRAUD
Security Measures
Install anti-viruses and firewalls to all your personal and business computers. And regularly update
software to stay protected.
Be Suspicious
Never click on vague emails from “friends” that want you to “check this out”.
Always look at the from address when viewing an email.
Make you password hard to guess and change it across different sites
Avoid giving out your email to every website you visit or every store that asks.
Never give out your banking information except through an encrypted website.
Insurance:
As insurance professionals, we always recommend having a backup plan if your security measures are
enough to prevent cybercrime.
To protect your personal wealth most home insurance (primary usage) companies have the option of including identity theft protection. This added coverage is usually a very small annual premium and can cover around $5,000 in damages.
If you are a small business, please understand that it’s not just your assets and information on the line. Any customer information you have on file (credit cards, address, dob) are susceptible for being stolen. If this information gets into the wrong hands, your business will be responsible.
Business Cyber Insurance includes financial losses due to cyber events, coverage if your information or customer information is stolen, and possible financial aid for legal consultation. It can also include coverage for lost revenue if your business is inoperable during a cyber event.
The battlefield for combating theft may have shifted to the digital world, but there are plenty of weapons at our disposal to ensure our safety. If you are vigilant and have the right protection, your assets should be secure in the cyber world we now live in.
Refresh Your Space For Spring:
by Kim Schneider owner: Home - Coastal Design by Kim
Bronze, aged brass, polished nickel, copper, black or chrome? There’s so many great finishes available today, why just stick to one? When you mix metals it creates visual interest, adds personality and charm. But, there is a
method to the madness.
Mixed metal accents can be anything from cabinet hardware and light
fixtures to table bases, drapery rods and mirror frames. All of these
elements can give your home a unique look and feel. Determine your primary metal and add one accent metal. For a good
balance use the 70/30 ratio, meaning 70% of your pieces should be in your dominant metal and 30% should be in your accent metal. If you went bold and choose three metals, follow a 60/25/15 ratio.
Your mixed metal look shouldn’t appear random. Make it intentional, by keeping all of your similar items in the same finish. For example, in the kitchen all of the cabinet knobs and door pulls should be in one metal, while your pendant light fixtures can be in another metal. If you chose three metals, your sink faucet can be the third. You could also consider
your appliances as the third metal.
Choose metals that reflect your personality and compliment your existing paint colors and surfaces. If deciding how to mix metals and finishes sounds overly daunting to you, contact Coastal Design by Kim at (850) 904- 6622. We can help you make the perfect selections for your space. www.coastaldesignbykim.com
by Kim Schneider owner: Home - Coastal Design by Kim
Bronze, aged brass, polished nickel, copper, black or chrome? There’s so many great finishes available today, why just stick to one? When you mix metals it creates visual interest, adds personality and charm. But, there is a
method to the madness.
Mixed metal accents can be anything from cabinet hardware and light
fixtures to table bases, drapery rods and mirror frames. All of these
elements can give your home a unique look and feel. Determine your primary metal and add one accent metal. For a good
balance use the 70/30 ratio, meaning 70% of your pieces should be in your dominant metal and 30% should be in your accent metal. If you went bold and choose three metals, follow a 60/25/15 ratio.
Your mixed metal look shouldn’t appear random. Make it intentional, by keeping all of your similar items in the same finish. For example, in the kitchen all of the cabinet knobs and door pulls should be in one metal, while your pendant light fixtures can be in another metal. If you chose three metals, your sink faucet can be the third. You could also consider
your appliances as the third metal.
Choose metals that reflect your personality and compliment your existing paint colors and surfaces. If deciding how to mix metals and finishes sounds overly daunting to you, contact Coastal Design by Kim at (850) 904- 6622. We can help you make the perfect selections for your space. www.coastaldesignbykim.com
Travel & Day Trips Around Florida
There is a website you might enjoy called, Florida Back Roads Travel. Here is a link to one of their pages where you can find day trips by theme; for example: amusment parks. Check it out! https://www.florida-backroads-travel.com/florida-day-trips-by-theme.html
There is a website you might enjoy called, Florida Back Roads Travel. Here is a link to one of their pages where you can find day trips by theme; for example: amusment parks. Check it out! https://www.florida-backroads-travel.com/florida-day-trips-by-theme.html
Volunteer Opportunites: Posted from the Destin City website at Volunteer Opportunities | Destin, FL - Official Website (cityofdestin.com)
Volunteer Opportunities City Boards/Committees (details)
Volunteer Opportunities City Boards/Committees (details)
Okaloosa County Master Gardeners: Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/OCMGA
If you want to know what to plant and when, check out this Planting calendar on the OCMGA website. https://www.ocmga.org |
Christian Corner: by Patricia Lee
Bible: 1st Peter Chapter 3: 10, 11, 12
"If you want a happy, good life, keep control of your tongue, and guard your lips from telling lies. Turn away from evil and do good. Try to live in peace, even if you must run after it to catch and hold it! For the Lord is watching His children, listening to their prayers; but the Lord's face is hard against those who do evil."
Bible: 1st Peter Chapter 3: 10, 11, 12
"If you want a happy, good life, keep control of your tongue, and guard your lips from telling lies. Turn away from evil and do good. Try to live in peace, even if you must run after it to catch and hold it! For the Lord is watching His children, listening to their prayers; but the Lord's face is hard against those who do evil."
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